Part 1: A New Fad
A new fad is sweeping the nation that has become popular with
some teen girls and young women. They call it Ankling and refer to it as a “game.”
It’s based on the old concept of putting a notch in a bedpost for sexual
conquests, but in this case, the “notch” is in the Achilles tendon of the boy
they’ve “conquered.”
Initially, the fad starts as a form of vigilante justice targeting
the type of guys most people agree deserve some kind of punishment. Horny guys
who catcall girls, guys who text obscene pictures to girls. Boys who won’t take
no for an answer or try to play games of their own to “score” sex. Notching or
Ankling is low-key cheered on by other girls and women and parents who know “those
boys” were no good. Because the victims are all “bad guys” for one reason or
another, no one minds that they get what’s coming to them.
When these so-called low-life boys complain of their injury,
the general community looks upon them with suspicion and scorn. They are asked
why they didn’t treat girls better so they wouldn’t have been targeted like this.
They are asked if they are too weak to defend themselves against one girl with
a knife. They are told they should’ve kept their pants on. They are told they’re
lucky she didn’t use that knife “somewhere else.” They are told they probably
started it, and that girls are entitled to defend themselves.
Eventually it escalates. Psychologists suggest that girls may
get a thrill from dominating boys in this way. To satisfy their need for a
hormonal rush, they find more and more reasons that men and boys deserve to be
punished. Any boy who wants to have any kind of sexual contact might have to
pay the price. Of course, not ALL girls are like this, and so boys begin to
devise ways to figure out which girls they can trust. Sometimes they get it
wrong. When they do, people are quick to point out the ways they demonstrated
bad judgment in dating that particular girl.
Meanwhile, the more aggressive girls have developed a set of
“rules” that boys need to live by if they expect to remain safe. Boys need to
always be deferential to girls, treating them as if they are royalty. Boys
should slouch, and try to appear shorter than girls, so that girls know the boy
is not a threat. Boys should always keep their hands exposed and visible, so
girls can see they aren’t hiding drugs or weapons that might harm a girl.
Wearing gloves, hoodies, loose clothing, or having any pockets are all deemed
to be indications of a man’s bad intentions, and justification for a girl to Ankle
him, even if he has not approached her sexually in any way.
Not ALL girls are like this. Some girls care about boys and
don’t want to see them hurt. They advise their male friends to just go along
with the rules. Sure, it’s silly and annoying, but it’s not THAT hard to wear
clothes without pockets, and who cares, it’s just clothing. Schools determine that
boys wearing pockets and baggy clothing have become too much of a distraction
to girls, and so they change the dress codes accordingly.
Most boys, and their parents, and some of the more enlightened girls, are very
upset that boys are getting hurt and that law enforcement doesn’t seem to be
taking these cases seriously. Technically, Ankling is Assault and Battery and
it’s illegal. However, it’s very hard to catch these girls, and prove they did
it. The girls tend to run in packs and look out for each other and give each
other alibis. There’s often not any physical evidence, beyond the severed tendon.
Girls will lurk under stairwells, or in bushes, and so many school bus attacks have
occurred, that boys are now made to sit in the back of the bus, so girls can’t get
behind them to cut them from under the seat.
The fact is, it doesn’t take long to slash a leg, and it’s
often a case of he said/she said. Many of these cases don’t even make it to the
courtroom. When they do, the victim often finds himself in the uncomfortable
position of explaining, why he thinks he has a right to make accusations that
could “ruin someone’s life,” for a mere cut that should heal fully in 4 to 6
months. The 4 to 6 month timeframe becomes a popular defense battle cry, so
that even when a ironclad case comes through, the girl generally gets a 4 to 6
month sentence, usually probation, or community service.
The victims argue that healing isn’t complete in 4 to 6 months.
There may be lifelong weakness, limping, and post-traumatic stress (judges tend
to roll their eyes at this one). Many people dismiss the injured boys as
whiners, but for the victims and their families the pain is real. They launch various
support groups and organizations that aim to educate the general public about
the real life-long effects of an Ankling attack.
In addition, these groups provide helpful information about
how boys can avoid Ankling. One group, Victims of Ankling Speaking Together (VAST) speaks
out about the topic at High Schools all over the country in special sessions just
for the boys. The speakers bravely share their experiences and share tips for
boys. They explain how men need to walk carefully in the center of sidewalks and
parking aisles, far from the reach of knife-wielding girls who might be lurking
there. They should always look under their vehicles from a distance, as they approach,
and also, check the back seat of the car before driving off. And always lock
the doors. They should avoid stairwells with open stairsteps, as well as
bleachers (girls can hide underneath). When they go on a date with a girl, they
should use a buddy system and signal a friend if they get a “bad vibe.”
“Do you recommend that boys wear the steel-lined boots,” a
parent asks at one recent event, while boys groan because the boots are heavy
and uncomfortable. The experts are divided on this answer. While it does prevent
the Achilles tendon injury, in some cases, the presence of the steel boot just
angers the attacker, and they will cut higher, which may involve knee injury,
or severe blood loss and even death if they hit an artery. “You could always go
with the full-length chain mail pants,” some experts suggest.
For most young men, wearing chain mail pants or even steel
boots is seen as a cowardly move and overkill, since MOST girls aren’t slashers,
and MOST guys don’t get attacked. In fact, on average, less than ten guys per
high-school report an Ankling injury. Advocacy groups like VAST argue that the
number is much higher, claiming that boys with near misses don’t report, for fear
of being targeted again. And sometimes a boy may pass off the injury as sports
related, which is more socially acceptable than admitting he’s a victim of Ankling
and being labeled a “jerk.”
And what about these rowdy, reckless girls who are preying
on guys like this? There are some opposition groups, like Ban Ankling Bullies
(BAB), but these are considered fringe movements, whose violent protests label
all young women as lost causes. The more general attitude is that girls are “just
letting off some steam,” or engaging in youthful hijinks. The impression that
boys deserve it is widespread. “Girls that age are very hormonal,” says Dr.
Jane Bordon, who has studied the phenomenon for several years. “If they can find
a less destructive way to release their energy, it’s helpful. Play a video game
or get out on the shooting range.” But for people like Samantha Jackson, a mom
in a small town in Michigan, Ankling isn’t that big of a deal. “Girls will be
girls,” she says. “They’re young, and they’re going to make some bad decisions.
It’s not even that bad.”
And science seems to show, she’s right. In an unexpected
side-effect, due to the recent increase in these incidents, doctors have now
perfected the Achilles Tendon repair surgery, with groundbreaking new
techniques. Recovery rates and times are better than ever, and this is great news
for all the guys who have legitimate sports injuries. In a way, it’s a blessing.
(Next week: Part 2. How Ankling Launched a New Generation of Medical Technology.)
Would people ever tolerate this?
ReplyDeleteWhat a great reversal and illustration of today's world.
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading Deborah. Please share if you can.
DeleteReminds me of the irony of Gulliver's Travels.
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